SO many thoughts in my head tonight. Haven't been very good about taking many pictures of the boys these days so I have had to be a little more creative. This picture is actually perfect for how I am feeling today. As I have mentioned earlier, a main part of Darren's progress is due to his ABA in home therapy. Well, I have decided to start taking part in this learning process. It's one of those situations when things happen and you KNOW exactly what you have to do. I have always been interested in it, but honestly was just overwhelmed with twin toddlers and well...just that. We have all stepped up to the next level over the last year. So, it's time. I have been reading so much, and those who know me, know that I don't read a whole lot. I am becoming a student of Applied Behavior Analysis and Verbal Behavior. Once I decided to start doing this, I felt a huge amount of responsibility pile on my shoulders. Wasn't sleeping well, etc. But there is power in knowlegde. I keep telling myself, he is MY son. Why wouldn't I want to know the best possible ways to teach him and interact with him? The truth is, I am really looking forward to it. I just want to make sure that I know what I am doing. Thank goodness for friends. I have found that people that have been part of this journey, are always willing to help when called upon. Even if it's been weeks or months...it's amazing. The support has been great. I will happy to tell about some of our sessions as soon as we get going consistently. So far, he has responded well. But Rome wasn't built in a day!
Trevor is still a major super hero fan. He is already playing PlayStation 2 games like a 10 year old. His eye hand coordination is crazy good and he actually knows what he is doing. Bunckle B is is favorite person to play these games with because he knows all the tricks! He had a great time doing so this weekend. He gets so into it that he starts referring to himself and others as those particular superheros. Trevor is a 4 year old in a 10 year old body. When we all went out to dinner this weekend, Trevor had a very hard time and was acting out quite a bit. On the way home, I asked him why he was being this way. His response was great, " because I want everyone to listen to me". I was so impressed with his honestly, that I just thanked him for being so truthful. But, just like when he is at school and has to share his toys, when we are all together we have to share taking turns talking and listening. He is so fun, yet so stubborn. Amazing. I know this....they are who they are for a reason. Wonderfully different and challenging in their own ways. Never a dull moment is a common saying in our house!
