Saturday, July 31, 2010
Just Another Day in Paradise
That's what my parents always say! Well, we were able to enjoy a little piece of paradise once again. Our trip included: Dancing and Singing at Duck"s
Monday, July 12, 2010
LOVE the POOL
The boys LOVE the pool. They always have. But this year, if they could go off the diving board for hours upon hours, they would! They do the same thing over and over....jump, swim to ladder, and go back in line. Trevor attempted to dive, twice now. The first time was a success. The second time proceeded in a belly flop that left him in tears. Haven't we all done that? So as he slowly climbed the ladder, tears boiling, I challenged him to ask anyone here at the pool if they too had ever belly flopped. At the moment, that meant nothing to him. But as he thought about it, he realized that it's the risk you take...and has accepted that...he also has not attempted a dive since then:) In time....in time.
Darren and the water are one in the same. At the pool, and even at the beach, I feel that Darren is in his element. These are places that Darren looks normal. Sound strange? Well, it shouldn't. We all have our strengths and weaknesses, the water and extreme coordination are passions and strengths of Darren's. He WANTED to swim...he now swims. He watched Trevor for a YEAR jump off the diving board....this year he jumped without reservation and hasn't stopped yet. He goes underwater, kicks a couple times and comes up laughing...he is SO proud of himself for trying something new. Does this sound like autism to you??? Not to me....this is normal:)
We love the summertime!
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Summertime
It is wonderful seeing their personalities blossom. Trevor continues to be my little Italian boy. He really enjoyed Kindergarten this year. His reading skills are really improving, still gets a little frustrated when trying to sound out words. We are trying to "practice" more often. Trevor REALLY loves Math. In the car he always wants me to give him math problems to figure out. He is also very good at counting coins. 
Tball was a blast this year. Trevor had a great time and really enjoyed all-stars. It was a nice way to take the game to the next level. He continues to love sports and is extremely competitive. I love that about him. This season was a real learning experience. I was reminded how great sports are for kids. So many wonderful lessons to be learned. At an age when they are little sponges, it is a perfect time to learn about the concepts of TEAM, WINNING, LOSING, HAVING GOALS, and WORKING HARD TO ACHIEVE THEM. So important. With Trevor, I constantly feel that I reflecting on my childhood...trying to provide him with all the good experiences of being a kid, but more importantly I have tried to evaluate my mistakes...and pass on the knowledge to him. I, too, was very competitive and very very hard on myself. I really try to talk things out with him. Share stories, good and bad. I think it helps us both:)
Darren continues to amaze me. If Trevor is the challenge of my past, Darren is the challenge of the future. He keeps me on my toes, that"s for sure. I feel that I have a built in sonar just for Darren that is constantly evaluating his location, mood, and excitement level. His school year was an absolute roller coaster ride, but I learned so much and truly feel that he is in the right school surrounded by dedicated staff that love and tolerate him:) Darren's personality is certainly shining through on all levels. He can be funny, engaging, silly, feisty, stubborn, and sweet. Patience is always needed, "the look from mommy" is always helpful as well.

Together, they are the Wonder Twins. I watch them play and fight and unconditionally love each other everyday. Trevor is a stronger person because of it, and Darren, a blessed child to have such a loving brother. They have great potential because of their special bond.
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Thursday, September 10, 2009
There is Light at the End of the Tunnel

Yes, I am happy, even giddy, I admit it. Full Day Kindergarten looks great on me:) I love those boys, BUT it was time!!! Time for all to move forward, learn from others...separation of church and state sounds better by the day. No, I didn't cry....I did contain myself...I didn't pump my fist in the air yelling YES, finally either:) Ironically I am reading the book "Happiness NOW"...can I get A-men!
(Mark, on the other hand, would like me to consider homeschooling the boys...hahahaha)
Trevor is taking Kindergarten in stride. But he's also been waiting for it since the last day of pre-school in May. He seems to really love it. The class has about 20 kids. He reported someone ("not me Mommia, I promise") kissing in line on the first day. He said he told the teacher, lol. Oh my...here we go again!
Darren's transition has not been as smooth. He made a good first impression alright, with his teeth! That's Darren for you...leaves his mark wherever he goes. It's a new school, new teacher, new students, many new transitions and demands. It will take time for him to get settled, as it always does.
A new chapter.........
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
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