Vacation, All I Ever Wanted

Vacation had to get away...The Go-Go's certainly knew what they were talking about! We just got back from visiting my parents in NC. Every year gets better and better. I remember the first time I attempted this. Craziness. I remember thinking, "Did I really think I was going to be able to relax?" I think they were 2 1/2 at the time. NOW it's fun. The boys are great in the car and just really have a fun time when we get there. When we were there for Spring Break, Darren was potty training. THAT is still hard for me to believe. Amazing.

This trip Trevor taught himself how to swim.

It is fascinating to me to watch Trevor when he is learning a new skill. I am continually shocked at how quickly he learns things. The other neat thing about this is that Darren was trying to imitate Trevor.

All I can simply say is...we had a lot of fun.

The Sun is Setting on..........

Trevor's first venture to the beach without Darren and me. It's strange for all of us, but nice for all of us. I am enjoying my time with Darren...and I am sure that Trevor is being well taken care of by all. It's a big deal in some ways, but so important for us all. It makes me realize how much work Darren is alone and how much attention Trevor deserves. There are always times that I worry that I am not giving both of them what they need. Typical I'm sure. It's just that Trevor helps me so much, but he also drains me mentally...as any good four year should. The lesson here is.....everyone needs a break sometimes. Just a little change of pace can do a lot of good. There is a wonderful part of the normal routine that is consistent and great....but change can be good and refreshing. I am happy for Trevor, that he surrounded with people that love him. I am happy for Darren too...he can get lots of Mommy time that he really needs right now. On this beautiful evening....I am just happy